Online Dating Advice

How to Meet Women Online -
A Guide to Love, Sex, and Romance on the Internet

by Jay Reiss, M.S.W.
The Online Dating Coach

To meet women online, you’ll first need the right mindset.

You’ll be competing with millions of other guys for thousands of beautiful women. But don’t let the competition intimidate you. With the right approach (I’ll show you how below) you’ll be in the driver’s seat, ahead of most of your competitors. You can meet women online by being a better communicator.

I can say this with confidence, because I have always blown away other men who were taller or better looking than me. I have the skill to communicate and meet women online – the kinds of women that most guys only dream about. Yes, it’s a skill, and yes, you can learn how it’s done. Just being tall, dark and handsome will only get you so far with all but the most shallow of women. What most women are looking for is a man who really understands them. And being tall and good-looking will only get you one date (if that) and it will never keep you in the game long-term, unless you’ve got other things going for you too. And to meet women online, all of those things can be learned.

To meet women online, you’ll start by gathering some tools:

• Join at least two dating sites. You can sign up right here, I make it easy for you.

• Learn how to create a killer Online Dating Profile. I provide Dating Profile instructions, but to make it foolproof, I’ll even design your dating profile for you.

• You’ll need a dozen studio quality photos – but they shouldn’t be taken in a studio. Find a good friend – even your sister – with a digital camera. Spend an afternoon outdoors and bring three changes of clothes: casual, business, and sporty. Take all of your photos in natural surroundings, and make sure that you’re close to the camera. You’ll need at least three amazing photos in all three outfits, so take about 100 photos altogether. Stand no farther than 10 feet from the camera, and take photos of you from the neck up, waist up, and head-to-toe. Turn on the flash if you’ll be in the shade and never take photos with the sun behind you.

• Learn how to write Letters of Introduction. To meet women online, you’ll need to awake the poet within. Study the writing of famous poets to fill you with inspiration:

• Sonnet 116 – William Shakespeare
• Love One Another – Kahlil Gibran
• Meeting at Night – Robert Browning
• My River – Emily Dickinson
• Love’s Philosophy – Percy Bysshe Shelley
• Maud – Alfred Lord Tennyson
• Annabelle Lee – Edgar Allan Poe
• Bright Star, Would I Were Steadfast as Thou Art – John Keats

Before you meet women online, make sure you’re prepared to talk on the telephone. As a professional Online Dating Coach, I’ll be happy to talk you through this. Use a landline whenever possible (your voice will sound deeper, and closer) and make sure all background noise is eliminated. Only call women between the hours of 7:00 and 8:30 PM unless they specifically ask you to do otherwise. Even when you meet women online, you’ll need to establish your respect for normal dating hours.

To Meet Women Online, Establish Yourself as Dependable

An important rule of online dating, like in any venture, is to always do what you say. When you make plans to talk to one of your matches, treat that call with the utmost respect. Call at the appointed hour, and don’t stay on the phone long the first time you talk. The purpose of the first phone call is to establish some mutual interest. This shouldn’t take more than 30 minutes. Keep in mind that the women you meet online may not look as good as their photos. So don’t invest hours talking until you’re blue in the face. Have a warm and friendly conversation, and then make plans for coffee.

When you Meet Women Online, Make Romance #1

It’s important that you establish, from the very first contact, that you’re looking for romance – and not just a friend. You should always act friendly of course, but if any women you meet online starts to position you as “platonic” then make one attempt to sway the conversation back to romance, and if you’re unsuccessful, I suggest you move on. Call me and I’ll coach you on how to avoid being cast in the “good friend” role if that’s been a recurrent issue.

To Meet Women Online, Develop Good Listening Skills Too

The single biggest complaint I get about men is that they dominate the conversation and talk about themselves. If you learn nothing else from me today, remember this. To successfully meet women online, develop good listening skills too. Learn how to ask questions that show you are listening; become empathic and supportive too. The guys who are the most successful at meeting women online are those who don’t talk about themselves.

So let’s summarize:

• To meet women online, develop confidence that you’ve got the right approach.
• Join at least two major online dating sites. (Call me and I’ll recommend a few).
• Become a great communicator by learning from world’s greatest poets.
• Create a great Dating Profile. Learn to write romantic letters. Prepare a dozen fabulous photos of you.
• Learn how to talk to women on the phone. Be responsible and polite, and always keep romance in mind.

If you’re a successful guy in most areas of your life but find it a challenge to meet women online, don’t worry about a thing – I’m an expert and I can help. Give me a call – the first consultation is free.

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