Online Dating Advice

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In spite of the spiraling growth of the Online Dating Industry – predicted to increase to $1.9 Billion in revenues by 2012 – there’s been a 53% increase in the number of people living alone since 1970 according to the U.S. Census Bureau. Given that 23% of adults now go online for dating, one would expect fewer singles among adults – not more. Are the online dating services failing to deliver the goods – or are their members simply unprepared for success?  Or do a lot of people simply need some online dating help?

Let’s face the facts. A lot of people join online dating services with good intentions – and then fail to meet the man – or the woman – of their dreams.

But are the dating sites themselves to blame? Most would argue that making thousands of other members available means that they’ve met their obligations to those who pay.

So in other words, if I put you in a room with hundreds of other singles and you walk away empty-handed, who’s fault is it that you’ve failed to start a new relationship?

Regardless of your answer, since every online dating service has a disclaimer on their website, there’s very little you can do about it other than complain to customer service. And that won’t get you a relationship either.

It is my contention that many people fail at online dating for very specific reasons:

Their Online Personal Ads are written poorly;
Their Online Dating Profiles are unimaginative;
Their Letters of Introduction aren’t inviting, and
Their photos need some work too.

When you come right down to it, these are all marketing issues – every single one of them. And they’re all correctable.

But ironically, the dating sites usually don’t offer individual online dating help with their member’s ads, profiles, and introduction letters. Instead, many post only general guidelines to follow.

Which means that for most members of dating sites, it’s “Sink or Swim” to either success – or more often than not failure – when it comes time to meeting someone for a new relationship.

And what are the reasons cited for disappointment?

“All the good men are taken”
“The good-looking women on this site are all Gold Diggers”

And so on.

In truth, the most attractive 5% of all dating site members are dating each other!

So where does that leave the remaining 95% of the members?  (Which may include you).

Now we’re back to marketing again and it’s probably time to rewrite your personal ads and dating profile.

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